Archive for April, 2006

Outlaw Abortions in Tennessee Today…

Support TN SB0334. Ok, you could have supported this last year. Perhaps we’ll have another chance next year, but the question is why didn’t Tennessee Right To Life let someone know this was on the docket?

I’m on the list, I get the e-mails, I respond when they ask for action…but why don’t they want to out law abortion? I suppose that’s a deeper question for another time. For now read the text of the bill and be sure to send Senator Miller an E-mail and thank him for his heroic if not lonely stand for the unborn.

The summary of the bill states:

“Abortion - Redefines person to mean a live human being with life beginning when the ovum is fertilized by male sperm; permits abortions only if the mother’s life is at risk and after the physician certifies certain information. - Amends TCA Title 39.”

In the “about” the bill section it reads:

This bill would remove the authorization for any abortion unless the woman’s life is at risk and her attending physician certifies that an abortion is necessary to save the woman’s life. This bill states that “human life begins when the ovum is fertilized by male sperm.”

It should be noted that both the federal and state constitutions have been interpreted through case law to protect a woman’s right to choose to terminate a pregnancy. Such cases identify “viability of the fetus” as the point at which the state may “interfere” (but not unreasonably) with that right. Removal of a woman’s right to terminate a pregnancy without state interference prior to the viability of the fetus would be considered constitutionally suspect, which would be the case in this bill if “fertilization” is “pre-viability”. It should also be noted that under the case interpreting the state and federal constitutions, a restriction on abortion generally has to contain an exception for the life or health of the mother, not just the life of the mother.

It’s sad, but the fact of the matter is this. Abortion will not come to an end in Tennessee, until someone is willing to state the unpopular and take a stand for the babies.

Jeff Miller - Hero for babies

Thank You Senator Jeff Miller! We thank you and the Babies thank you!

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Meal Planning Article

I ran across this article called Once-A-Month-Cooking: How To Make Your Plan Work by Crystal Paine. It is also a great resource for those wanting to learn or expand their meal planning skills.

Through many years of trial and error, these homemaking skills of meal planning are becoming refined. Isn’t it wonderful that we mothers have the opportunity to train our daughters to be skilled workers within the home even while they are young in preparation for the day they will become the manager of their own home. Training our daughters in the lost skills of homemaking is a responsibility of ours and an invaluable gift to them.

This week, I encourage you to set aside some time to plan your meals for May.

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Queen of my own domain

I ran across another article while doing some research for an article I am writing on a similar subject.
I found this article chilling in some aspects. Consider an excerpt from Stay-At-Home Moms: The Most Important Job in the World:

The search begins. For some reason, telephone poles seem to have become billboards around our community. I can stop at almost any intersection and read a number of flyers:

  • Garage sale, 9 to 2, Sat. only
  • Firewood, Maple & Fir, Delivered
  • Reward: Have You Seen Our Golden Retriever?
  • Quality Child Care in My Home

Quality child care? From a phone number stapled to a telephone pole along Hogan Road? Is that all the recommendation needed today to consider placing children in a stranger’s care? Have we become so desperate?

Not long ago, I received a letter from Kendall, a young friend who works in a daycare center. It read: “Working here for the past three years has given me a stark view of where families, especially women, are headed. Motherhood is no longer valued, and it is seen more as a mark of prestige than as the precious gift it truly is. Our little girls are growing up playing office, banker and travel agent while they take their baby dolls to a daycare center or sitter.�

That was a strong statement, so I called Kendall and asked her to tell me more about her concerns. She replied, “Not all mothers who bring their children to day care are bad mothers. But I see a lot of tired women who don’t have any patience at the end of the day. I see too many of them whisk their kids off to another babysitter for the evening while they do things for themselves.

When Kendall was little, she played house. There was a mommy and a daddy “These little girls don’t play house,� she told me. “They never cook a meal; they microwave everything. I never see them nurturing their dolls. They just put them in a crib and have their friends take care of them. These little girls all want to be like boys. They’re very competitive, but they’re not at all nurturing.�

Kendall works in a daycare center because she loves children. She has no ax to grind with day care and no grudge to bear against mothers, She’s merely reporting what she sees. And what she sees is too many mothers forgetting to nurture and using child-care workers as substitute parents. And she sees little girls mimicking their mommies — putting their baby dolls aside and going to the office.

Our children learn by our example. Momma at home is vital. Too many times the wonderful aspirations of family, babies and home are traded for office work and day-care. The corporate woman has neutralized her femininity. The competition with men is endless and she will never be satisfied in her quest to rule or even exist in the domain that isn’t hers to be in. Her domain is in the home and her role is that of wife and mother. She is queen ruler. She is the chief managing officer. Most homes today are worn and rusty, missing the much needed care and supervision of a full time mother. The well-oiled machine has been abandoned as the fairy princess has galloped off to another land hoping to find fulfillment, only to ultimately bring her home into a state of ruins.
Like I have said before, as a stay-at-home mother, our job is not that of baby-sitter or thumb-twiddler. Running a household requires more years of training than any college degree. The results of this lack of education and training are seen in today’s woman, who scarcely knows a fraction of what was commonly known amongst the least educated woman a century ago in regards to homemaking and raising children. Unfortunately, our modern society holds such a low view of motherhood and homemaking, that many of us received little, if any, preparation and education for the job we now hold. That is not an excuse for not executing our roles properly; self-learning and education are available to us all. I am encouraged to see a new generation of women being raised with the understanding that homemaking and motherhood are vitally important. It is awesome to see some of these young women who already have become proficient in the arts and skills of homemaking. I see how prepared they are for marriage and how incredibly suited and comfortable they are in their roles as wife, mother and homemaker. There is much satisfaction in being the queen of your own domain.

To Be Continued: Part Two………..


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Stay-At-Home Mom Salary

This off salary.com,

Stay-at-home mothers wear many hats. They’re the family CEO, the day care provider, accountant, chauffeur, counselor, chef, nurse, laundress, entertainer, personal stylist, and educator. Based on a 90-hour work week, Salary.com has estimated that a fair wage for the typical stay-at-home mom would be well over $90,000 for executing all of her daily tasks. Factor in overtime, and the appropriate salary takes a leap of around $25,000.
That $115,000 was taking into account 2 children. Now, we all know that a stay at home mother is worth way more than that! For the complete article, Dream Job: Stay-at-Home Mom. (Although I do not agree with it completely…some of the info is interesting.)

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returning

I will be gearing up to post some blog entries soon.  I took a vacation from blogging.  We had a wonderful week with my family who came a very long way just to see us!  We had a great time!

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RDAs for non-pregnant, pregnant and lactating women

Here are the Recommended Dietary Allowances (RDAs) of some nutrients for nonpregnant, pregnant, and nursing women between the ages of 25 and 50.

Non-Pregnant Pregnant Nursing (to 6 mos.)
Calories 2000 2300 2500
Protein (g) 44 60 65
Vitamin A (mcg R.E.) 800 800 1300
Vitamin D (mcg) 5 10 10
Vitamin C (mg) 60 70 95
Thiamin (mg) 1.1 1.5 1.6
Riboflavin (mg) 1.3 1.6 1.8
Niacin (mg N.E.) 15 17 20
Vitamin B6 (mg) 1.6 2.2 2.1
Calcium (mg) 800 1200 1200
Iron (mg) 15 30 15
Folate (mcg) 180 400 280
Zinc (mg) 12 15 19
Vitamin B12 (mcg) 2.0 2.2 2.6

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baby burning calories

I was interested to find out that breastfeeding burns anywhere from 300 to 800 calories per day. Amazing isn’t it.

Some mothers find that breastfeeding doesn’t affect weight loss, other find that breastfeeding seems to drop the weight very quickly…sometimes too quickly.

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notes on meal planning

Some notes on meal planning:

I do not plan a month in advance all the time. Some times I go week to week. Like this month-after coming off a big month last month with visitors in my house and sickness-my meal planning went out the window mostly. I plan to pick it up again but for now I am just planning a week in advance.

I write my meals down on a calendar and post it on the refrigerator. Some people use a dry erase board-that way they can make quick changes or switches easily.

After I plan what meals I want…I make my list. I plan down to the snacks and drinks. I plan breakfast, lunch and supper. I usually have a couple of things for breakfast and lunch and we just rotate them. Sometimes I tweak my plan a bit after visiting the grocery store. If I had planned apples for snacks, but oranges were on sale buy one bag, get one free. Then I will change the apples to oranges.

Snack Prep examples:
On Monday, I might wash and chop up carrots, celery and broccoli and place them in a Tupperware type container and store in the refrigerator. I will also make large amounts of peanut butter crackers. I also might peal about 8 oranges and put in a zip lock bag and store in the refrig. Occasionally I will bake bulk muffins or mix up some granola or trail mix. It helps me to have snacks that are quick and easy but with the amount of people we have, I try to make it as healthy and frugal as possible - making my own peanut butter crackers is much cheaper than buying them. I boil large amounts of eggs for snacks or for use in tuna salad. When I make tuna salad…I make a lot of it and use it the next day as well.

Freezing meals:
You can freeze meals a couple of different ways. Either work up your freezer meals gradually. For example, if you are making lasagna for supper, make two of them and freeze one. It doesn’t take that much extra time..but saves a lot of time in the long run. Or you can just plan a day or two of major cooking and baking. When I do this, I never bake and cook on the same day. I have a separate baking day.

I have followed the Once a Month cooking book in the past, but now I use a couple of recipes from it and make up my own plan. If I am cooking for the month, it takes me more than a day to cook all the meals and I will have a helper come over.

It might look something like this: the last Wednesday of the month is planning day, Thursday is shopping, Friday and Saturday are cooking.

To start off, I will take a piece of paper and write down something like this:
Lasagna - 4 meals
Mexican Stroganoff- 2 meals
Pizza Bread - 2 meals
Chicken n’ rice - 2 meals
Bar-B-Q chicken -2 meals
Teriyaki chicken - 2 meals
Chicken soup - 4 meals
Chili - 2 meals
Spaghetti - 4 meals
meatloaf - 4 meals
sandwich pockets - 4 meals

This is how I plan how many “FREEZER” meals I want and how I know how much to buy. This doesn’t include the other items I will need for other meals. If I am going to make 4 lasagnas, I will buy 4 boxes of noodles, 4 tubs of cottage cheese, 2 large blocks of cheese, a huge can of sauce with enough onion, garlic, mushrooms, green pepper or what ever else I want in my sauce…..etc. etc. I will cook my sauce in a large crock pot and have my four trays ready to fill with noodles, cheese, sauce etc. Then wrap them up and freeze.

If I make meatloaf, I mix up the meat with the egg, spices, bread crumbs etc. and shape into a loaf and freeze it. I don’t cook the meatloaf before freezing. When I want to use it, I thaw it and bake it. Throw in some potatoes or steam some veggies and toss a salad…it is an easy meal that would have taken more time if you would have done it all at once.

Teriyaki chicken- if you use the frozen chicken breasts, add some teriyaki sauce and a can of pineapple rings. Drain the juice from the can. Freeze the chicken, sauce and pineapple in a zip lock bag. My kids love this either on a toasted bun for a sandwich or cut up over rice.
Marinated meats are the easiest though. If you want to marinate steak or chicken or pork chops or even fish, you can buy the gallon size zip lock bags and assemble by mixing the marinade and meat in the bag and freezing. I buy frozen chicken breasts and place them in a freezer bag with the sauce. Don’t thaw the chicken breasts…just stick it back in the freezer. When you want to have the B-B-Q chicken breasts for supper one night, you let it thaw and it does great at soaking up the sauce..pour it in a pan and bake it.
When freezing your soups or chili or spaghetti sauce….. you will need to let them cool. Freeze the bags laying flat or else you will get very misshapen frozen bags that are hard to organize in a freezer.

Label your bags or freezer storage pans with a permanent maker. Don’t forget baking instructions.

You may not want to eat a freezer meal every night. I have some nights where I make supper with the pressure cooker or where I will have something simmering in the crock pot all day.

Our job as the manger of our home is an important one. Many of us forget how important this job is.

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We are finally finished

I am closing the Chicken Pox book…a full 3 weeks and now all 7 children have broken out.  I am glad that it was short lived compared to what it could have been.  Today was a better day, with only spots to show for, the children enjoyed the day playing in the nice spring outdoors.

The best chicken pox idea we tried was the oatmeal sock.  Forget the Aveeno bath–we did that in the beginning but with 7 children and several baths a day–that quickly ran out.  I put 1 cup of oats in a sock and tied the end and let the children play with it in the bathtub–better and cheaper than Aveeno.  I could gently rub backs and necks for soothing relief from the itch.  They loved it.

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Raw Milk Update - The Meatrix I and II

Here are a couple must see movies. In them you will see AgriBusiness introduced. This is what the TN House Agriculture committee sided with today over and above the small family farm. By a vote of 8 to 5 the TN Raw Milk Bill (HB1623) was killed in committee. Thanks mostly to the two turn coat Republicans, Steve McDaniel District 72 and William Baird District 36.

I have asked each of these men for an explanation and will post them unedited if they respond. However, I doubt this will happen. But I thought I’d also send those members of the committee a little movie to watch in their spare time. If you have not seen these two short spoofs, they are well worth the time. In addition to being extremely creative and funny, they convey a powerful perspective on the real issue with today’s farming laws and techniques - namely that they are based on greed and corporate profits and not what is good for the consumer.

It seems strange that an average employee who is fortunate enough to still receive some stock options with his company these day has restrictions placed on him to prohibit him from selling those options at specific times, because of a risk of a “Conflict of Interest”. But, at the same time here we have an industry whose practices daily place them in a conflict of interest. Eating is suppose to be an enjoyable, and healthy experience, but today’s large farms and the practices and laws that govern these entities focus on profit, not the health of the consumer.

In a nut shell that is what we have with the killing of HB1623 & SB1984. We have support for big business and profits at the expense of the small family farm. It’s a sad state, but I suppose all would have been better if I had only picked the blue pill. Choose carefully!

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